Koreans often have mixed feelings about Korean Americans (or gyopo).
Here’s what Koreans think of Korean Americans!
Quick Summary
- Koreans have mild envy and some constructive criticism for Korean Americans.
- To be honest, most Koreans don’t really think about Korean Americans.
- When we see Korean Americans, we can recognize them though. The hints are their makeup styles, fashion choices, mannerisms, and of course English/Korean language skills.
Koreans Are Envious of Korean Americans’ English and Confidence
Koreans are often a bit jealous of Korean Americans for their effortless English skills and confidence.
While many Koreans spend years studying English, Korean Americans seem to have it all naturally.
We also think they’re lucky to grow up in the States because they didn’t have to go through our brutal education system. No Suneung (CSAT) nightmares for them, but proms and fun school events!
Koreans also admire their ability to blend American self-assurance and self-esteem.
Their laid-back attitude and ability to embrace individuality are things Koreans have a hard time achieving.
Some Koreans are secretly jealous that Korean American men don’t have to perform mandatory military service like those born in South Korea.
Only rich families used to be able to fly to the States and give birth to their sons for military exemption.
Regardless of the hardships they’ve been through in the States from fitting in to experiencing prejudice, many Koreans still think Korean Americans are lucky.
Koreans Think Gyopos Have Privileges and Misunderstandings
There’s a perception that some Korean Americans enjoy Korea’s perks without fulfilling their duty in Korean society.
As gyopos, they may benefit from visa advantages (F4), universal health care, and job opportunities that sometimes feel out of reach for locals.
Also, many Koreans feel that Korean Americans don’t fully understand the nuances of Korean culture or language subtleties.
Not all, but some Korean Americans don’t improve their Korean language skills, even after living in the country for a decade.
To be fair, this goes both ways as some Koreans don’t learn English while living in LA or Koreatown for decades.
Honest Opinion on How Koreans View Korean Americans?
To be honest, most Koreans don’t really think about Korean Americans.
When we see Korean Americans, we can recognize them because of their makeup styles, fashion choices, mannerisms, and of course English/Korean language skills.
In general, Koreans won’t understand what Korean Americans went through growing up in the States and view them as somewhat lucky.
Most Korean Americans are super nice, but some gyopos in the States look down on Koreans or just me, especially for English proficiency. Maybe because K-pop wasn’t popular back when I studied in the States.
Koreans admire how they celebrate their roots though.
What Are Some Gyopo Stereotypes Koreans Have?
When Koreans think of Gyopos, a few common images tend to come to mind.
Some are positive, while others… not so much!
- Chill Vibe: Many Koreans view Gyopos as naturally laid-back, with a relaxed attitude, fluent English, and a carefree mindset.
- Cool Style: Gyopos are often seen as fashion-forward, sporting Western styles that many conservative Koreans wouldn’t dare to wear.
- Overconfident Gyopo: Some Koreans perceive Gyopos as a bit too proud of their English skills and Western upbringing. When a Gyopo drops an English word into conversation, it can make us think, ‘We get it, you lived abroad.’ The worst is when they seem to look down on Koreans for their less-than-perfect English pronunciation.
- Free Spirit: Koreans often admire how Gyopos seem less constrained by societal expectations, openly expressing their opinions and casually interacting with elders.
Whether it’s their confidence, bilingual talents, or cultural blending, there are many things Koreans can learn from Korean Americans, and vice versa!
Let me know what you think in the comments!
